Douglas Vandergraph | Christian Motivation, Faith, and Hope

Trusting Jesus in hard times becomes especially difficult when you've done what you believed was right and life still seems to be working against you.
I want to talk about that feeling today, because I believe it's something nearly every Christian encounters eventually.
There's a part of Peter's story in Matthew 14 that speaks directly to people who are tired of fighting battles they never expected to face.
Jesus had instructed His disciples to travel across the water. They weren't running away from God or deliberately going in the wrong direction. They were following His direction.
And still, they encountered a storm.
I've thought about that many times.
We sometimes look at painful circumstances and immediately begin questioning ourselves. Did I make the wrong decision? Did I misunderstand what God wanted? Have I somehow disappointed Him?
But Peter's experience challenges the assumption that difficulty must mean we've wandered away from the path God wants us to follow.
The disciples were exactly where Jesus had sent them.
When Jesus appeared, walking toward them across the sea, Peter found the courage to do something he could never have accomplished by his own strength.
He stepped out of the boat.
Then he became afraid.
I want us to spend time with that moment, because I believe there's an important difference between having faith and believing we must never experience doubt.
Peter's fear didn't erase the steps he had already taken. His struggle didn't mean his relationship with Jesus was over.
And when he began to sink, he called out for help.
In this episode, we explore Peter's encounter with Jesus through an imaginative first-person retelling grounded in the biblical account. We'll consider what the disciples endured, why Peter's decision required such remarkable trust, and what his rescue reveals about the patience and compassion of Christ.
More importantly, we'll connect those lessons to the experiences people are living through right now.
The uncertainty of searching for employment.
The exhaustion of caring for someone who's sick.
The strain of trying to keep a family together.
The loneliness of carrying responsibilities nobody else seems to understand.
And the quiet fear that perhaps you aren't strong enough to handle what comes next.
I don't believe Christianity requires us to deny those realities.
I believe our faith gives us somewhere to bring them.
If you're listening while driving home, working, resting, or trying to get through another difficult day, I hope this conversation gives you permission to be honest about what you're facing.
You don't have to know how everything will turn out before you turn to Jesus.
Sometimes the beginning of renewed strength is simply admitting that you need Him.
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Prayer and faith become deeply personal when the words you've spoken to God are followed by silence, uncertainty, and the ordinary responsibilities of another day.
Have you ever finished praying and wondered whether you should have said more?
Maybe you forgot to mention something important. Maybe you didn't explain how badly you needed help. Maybe you've been carrying the same concern for months, and you've started to wonder whether you need to find some special way to make God understand.
I want to talk with you about that feeling.
And I'd like to begin with a mother who knew Jesus better than almost anyone else on earth.
At a wedding in Cana, Mary notices that the wine has run out. She approaches her Son and tells Him what's happened.
What I find so moving about this conversation isn't merely what she says. It's what she does afterward.
She leaves the matter with Jesus and directs the servants toward His instructions.
I've wondered what it would be like to develop that kind of confidence in my own prayer life.
Not confidence that I'll always receive exactly what I've requested. Not the belief that God will automatically remove every hardship.
I'm talking about the quiet assurance that I don't have to earn Christ's attention through perfectly arranged words.
I can speak honestly with Him.
I can trust His wisdom.
And I can remain willing to act when there's something good and necessary for me to do.
In this episode, we're spending time with one of my favorite details from the Gospel of John. We'll talk about Mary's remarkable response, why Jesus asked the servants to fill jars with water, and what their participation teaches us about the relationship between prayer and responsibility.
We'll also consider why the quality of the wine matters and what that surprising ending might tell us about refusing to give up hope for the future.
There's a question I hope you'll carry with you after listening.
Am I waiting because God is asking me to be patient, or am I standing still because I'm afraid to take the next step?
Those situations aren't always easy to tell apart. But bringing that question honestly before Christ can be a meaningful beginning.
My hope is that this episode feels less like someone giving you instructions and more like sitting down with a friend who understands how difficult faith can sometimes be.
You may be searching for direction. You may be praying for someone you love. Or perhaps you simply need a little peace after a long, exhausting week.
Whatever brought you here, I'm glad you're listening.
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Finding joy again can begin with an unexpected question: When did you last give yourself permission to enjoy your own life?
Not accomplish something.
Not solve somebody else's problem.
Not check another responsibility off your list.
Just enjoy being alive.
I think that's a question worth spending a little time with, because many of us have become so accustomed to carrying responsibilities that we've almost forgotten what it feels like to be genuinely happy.
And I want to share a story about Jesus that might help us look at things differently.
It's found in the second chapter of John.
Jesus and His disciples were invited to a wedding in Cana, where His mother, Mary, was also present.
I love imagining what that occasion meant to the people getting married.
They were beginning a new chapter together. Their families had gathered. Friends had come to celebrate.
It was supposed to be a wonderful time.
Then the family ran into a problem that could have spoiled the occasion.
They ran out of wine.
Mary brought the situation to Jesus, and He instructed the servants to fill large stone jars with water.
What followed was extraordinary.
The water became wine, and the celebration continued.
But there's something about the setting that stays with me.
Jesus was there.
He had accepted an invitation to share in an important moment in somebody else's life.
The same Jesus who would later comfort grieving families, heal the sick, and teach people about the kingdom of God was also present at a wedding celebration.
And I think that gives us a wonderful opportunity to talk about something we sometimes overlook in our Christian lives.
The importance of joy.
In this episode, I want us to have a genuine conversation about happiness, gratitude, relationships, and the little things that make life meaningful.
We'll talk about why it's possible to love Jesus and still experience difficult emotions. Why sadness doesn't mean you've lost your faith. And why having problems doesn't mean you have to give up every opportunity to enjoy yourself.
I also want us to consider how much happiness we can bring into the lives of others.
Think about the people who've encouraged you over the years.
Someone who believed in you when you weren't sure you believed in yourself.
Someone who made you laugh during a terrible week.
Someone who picked up the phone just to see how you were doing.
Those people made a difference.
And you have that same opportunity.
You don't need a perfect life, unlimited money, or extraordinary abilities to make somebody else's day a little brighter.
Sometimes being kind, listening carefully, or showing up when you're needed is enough.
And while we're talking about bringing happiness to other people, I want us to remember something equally important.
Your life matters, too.
Your friendships matter. Your memories matter. The experiences that bring you peace and happiness matter.
You don't have to earn the right to appreciate them.
This isn't a formal sermon, and I'm not going to pretend I have every answer.
It's a conversation about Jesus Christ and what His example can teach us about living with a little more gratitude, a little more hope, and a lot more appreciation for the people around us.
Take a few minutes, get comfortable, and join me for a story about a wedding, an unexpected miracle, and the beautiful possibility that your happiest memories may not all be behind you.
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Thank you for spending this time with me.
I hope you'll carry a little more happiness into the rest of your day, and I hope you'll give some of it away.
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Douglas Vandergraph
 
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Faith-based parenting is about much more than teaching children to pray or bringing them to church. It's about creating a home where the love we speak about becomes something our children can actually experience.
I'd like to spend a little time with you talking about that.
Because I've been thinking about a beautiful day I recently shared with my youngest daughter.
It wasn't some extraordinary occasion that required elaborate planning. It was simply an opportunity to be together.
And in the middle of it, I realized just how excited I am about the future waiting for my children.
I see their talents developing. I see their confidence growing. I see qualities emerging that I believe will help them become wonderful adults.
And naturally, as their father, that fills me with pride.
But I also understand that being proud of our children and actively helping them grow are two very different things.
We have to be willing to do the work.
We have to make the time.
We have to become the people our children can depend on, even when we're tired, concerned about money, overwhelmed by responsibilities, or dealing with our own struggles.
And I understand those struggles.
Some days, simply getting through everything we need to accomplish can feel like an enormous victory.
But the people we love shouldn't have to compete with every distraction in our lives for whatever energy remains.
My family is the most important thing I have.
That's why parenting isn't something I leave to chance.
I'm involved in my children's education. I'm there for their activities. I take their concerns seriously, and I want them to know they can come to me without fearing that I'll dismiss their feelings.
When they're happy, I want to share their happiness.
When they're discouraged, I want to help them find their footing.
And when they don't know what to do next, I want them to remember that they have a father who's willing to listen.
Our children have accomplished remarkable things academically. They've maintained straight A's without being made to feel that a lower grade would diminish their worth.
I believe the loving support surrounding them has helped them develop the confidence to work hard and succeed.
And that's something we can all learn from, regardless of what our own families look like.
Support doesn't guarantee that life will be easy.
But it helps people develop the strength to face what comes.
One of the things I treasure most about our household is our commitment to one another.
Each member of our family is a capable individual.
Yet our greatest strength isn't found in what any of us can accomplish separately.
It's found in knowing that we never have to stand alone.
Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 reminds us of the value of having someone beside us, especially when we fall and need help getting back up.
That scripture beautifully captures what I hope family always means to my children.
And there's another example I want us to consider.
In Mark 10, Jesus welcomed children when others attempted to keep them at a distance.
He didn't measure their importance by their accomplishments or social standing.
He simply loved them and made room for them.
There's something incredibly meaningful about that.
Our children don't need to become successful adults before they deserve our full attention.
They deserve our love today.
In this personal Christian motivational episode, we're going to explore why parental presence matters, how children learn through the behavior they witness, why technology should never replace loving relationships, and how we can establish homes grounded in faith and mutual encouragement.
We'll also consider a question that deserves more attention than it receives.
What does the inside of our home reveal about the values we claim to believe?
Not the image we present to neighbors or friends.
The everyday reality that our children experience.
Because our example will continue teaching them long after a conversation has ended.
And perhaps you're listening today with a little regret.
Maybe you've missed moments you wish you could recover.
Maybe family relationships have become strained, or your responsibilities have left you feeling that there's never enough time.
I hope this conversation encourages you rather than weighs you down.
God can help us grow into better versions of ourselves. And sometimes that growth begins with something as simple as making a different choice today.
An honest conversation.
A heartfelt apology.
An unexpected hug.
An evening spent together without distractions.
Small moments can have lasting meaning.
Join me for this conversation about fatherhood, family commitment, Jesus-centered encouragement, and the kind of love that gives children a foundation they can carry throughout their lives.
And while you're listening, think about the legacy you're creating through the ordinary moments of your own life.
I'd be grateful if you shared this episode with another parent or someone who has played an important role in raising children.
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Our children are growing up.
We have the wonderful privilege of helping them grow well.
Let's make that privilege count.
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Barabbas and Jesus were brought into the same extraordinary moment of history, but I've often wondered what happened in the life of the man who was allowed to leave.
Welcome, my friend. I'm Douglas Vandergraph.
I have a story I'd like to share with you today, and I hope you'll listen to it when you have a little time to yourself.
Maybe you're driving to work.
Maybe you're taking a walk, getting the house ready for another day, or sitting somewhere quiet after a particularly difficult week.
Wherever you happen to be, I'm glad we're spending this time together.
There's something I've been thinking about.
We spend so much of our lives trying to get things right, don't we?
We make plans. We work hard. We try to treat people fairly. We do our best to make decisions we can live with.
And then there are those moments when we get something terribly wrong.
Sometimes it happens because we're angry.
Sometimes because we're afraid.
Sometimes because we don't understand the consequences until the damage has already been done.
And sometimes we carry those decisions much longer than anyone realizes.
That's what makes today's story especially meaningful to me.
I want to introduce you to a man whose name most Christians have heard but whose experience we rarely stop to imagine.
Barabbas.
The Gospels describe a prisoner associated with violence and rebellion.
He wasn't waiting for a public celebration or expecting to be honored for the way he had lived.
Yet in a decision that still astonishes readers of the Bible, this man received his freedom.
At the same time, Jesus of Nazareth was handed over to be crucified.
There's so much to unpack in that moment.
The injustice.
The anger of the crowd.
The choices made by people in positions of authority.
The terrible suffering Jesus was about to endure.
But I want to approach this conversation a little differently.
Rather than simply walking through the events and telling you what happened, I'd like us to consider what this story reveals about the human heart.
Why is it so difficult for us to accept mercy?
Why do we sometimes believe that our failures make us permanently unworthy?
And how can understanding the sacrifice of Jesus Christ help us face our past without losing hope for our future?
You know, I've come to believe that a lot of people aren't looking for somebody to tell them how badly they've messed up.
They already know.
What they're looking for is a reason to believe they can change.
They're looking for the courage to apologize, to rebuild, to ask for help, to pray again, or to take that first uncertain step toward a different life.
I believe our faith in Jesus Christ gives us a powerful foundation for those new beginnings.
Not because following Jesus makes every problem disappear.
Not because believers are somehow protected from every disappointment or painful consequence.
But because God's mercy offers forgiveness and restoration to people who could never achieve perfection on their own.
During our time together, we'll explore the Gospel accounts, the significance of Barabbas's name, and the spiritual meaning of a guilty man being released while Jesus faced the cross.
There's a question I want to save until the closing moments of this episode.
It's a question that changes the way I think about the entire story.
And I hope it gives you something meaningful to reflect on long after our conversation ends.
We'll also talk about how Christian forgiveness can shape our relationships, help us confront guilt, and give us the courage to move forward with humility and faith.
If you've been feeling discouraged, spiritually tired, or uncertain about your place in God's plans, I especially hope you'll spend this time with me.
You don't have to perform for God.
You don't have to manufacture a smile or pretend that every part of your life is wonderful.
Come to Him honestly.
Tell Him where you're struggling.
Ask for the wisdom to make better choices and the strength to live differently.
There's no shame in admitting that you need grace.
We all do.
Scripture for today's reflection:
Matthew 27:15–26
Mark 15:6–15
Romans 5:8
Before you move on with your day, I'd like you to consider one question:
What would change in your life if you truly believed that God's forgiveness could give you a fresh beginning?
I'd love for you to think about that, pray about it, and share your reflections in the episode comments if you're comfortable.
If today's conversation is meaningful to you, follow this podcast on Podbean so we can continue spending time together.
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And I have one more request.
Think of one person who might appreciate hearing this today. Someone who has been under pressure, struggling with regret, or simply having a hard time.
Share this episode with that person, whether by text, email, or your social media.
You don't always know what someone is going through, and a thoughtful gesture can mean much more than you realize.
Thank you for being here and for giving me the privilege of sharing this time with you.
Until our next conversation, take care of yourself, extend some compassion to the people around you, and keep your heart open to the possibilities God places before you.
Your friend,
Douglas Vandergraph
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Christians and Halloween can be a difficult combination to talk about, not necessarily because of costumes or candy, but because the subject touches something deeply important to us: our desire to live faithfully before God.
I want to invite you into a conversation that doesn't begin by telling you what conclusion you must reach.
Instead, I want to start with a question. When two sincere followers of Jesus see the same situation differently, how do we decide what is right without losing the kindness Christ has taught us?
That's the heart of this episode.
Halloween offers a revealing example of something we experience throughout our Christian lives. We encounter traditions that some believers accept and others reject. We weigh the possible benefits against spiritual concerns. We listen to our conscience, consider Scripture, and sometimes struggle to understand why another person reaches a different conclusion.
The easy response is to pick a side and criticize everyone who disagrees.
But I've always believed that faith should lead us toward greater wisdom, not simply stronger opinions.
In this episode, we explore the legitimate concerns Christians have about Halloween's darker themes and spiritual associations. We also consider the positive experiences that can come from innocent celebrations, family togetherness, generosity, and neighborhood friendships.
Neither perspective deserves to be dismissed without thought.
We then turn to several important biblical principles, including Paul's teachings about what is spiritually beneficial and how believers should approach disagreements involving personal convictions.
And we spend time considering one of Jesus Christ's most beautiful teachings: the Good Samaritan.
What does a story about helping a wounded stranger have to do with Halloween?
Perhaps more than we realize.
Jesus showed us that our responsibility to love our neighbor doesn't depend on whether that person thinks, believes, or behaves exactly as we do.
That message challenges us to examine not only the decisions we make, but also the spirit in which we make them.
If you've ever felt anxious about making the wrong spiritual choice, pressured by the opinions of other Christians, or discouraged by arguments within the faith community, I believe you'll find something worthwhile here.
My purpose isn't to convince everyone to celebrate Halloween or to insist that everyone should avoid it.
My purpose is to help you think carefully, respect your conscience, honor God's Word, and remember that Christian character is revealed through our treatment of others.
By the end of our time together, I hope you'll feel more confident about approaching difficult decisions with prayer, discernment, and peace.
You don't need to settle every disagreement in the Christian world to live a life that honors Jesus.
You can begin by choosing wisdom for yourself and showing grace to the people around you.
Thank you for spending this time with me. If this episode gives you a new perspective, please follow the podcast, share it with someone who might appreciate the conversation, and consider leaving a thoughtful comment about your own family's approach to Halloween.
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Stop worrying about what hasn't happened and consider how much of your emotional energy may be going toward situations that exist only as possibilities.
I want to begin this conversation with a situation that probably sounds familiar.
You're trying to fall asleep when you remember something that happened earlier in the day.
Maybe it was an unexpected remark from a colleague, a disagreement with someone you love, or a financial concern you've been trying to resolve.
You begin thinking about it.
Then you start imagining what could happen next.
Before long, you're mentally preparing for conversations that haven't occurred, decisions nobody has made, and consequences that may never materialize.
The room is quiet, but your mind is incredibly busy.
I think moments like these reveal something important about our relationship with uncertainty.
We don't always struggle because something terrible is happening.
Sometimes we struggle because we believe something terrible could happen, and we don't know how to stop anticipating it.
In this episode, I want to explore a powerful teaching from Jesus found in Matthew chapter 6.
Jesus asked His listeners what their worrying could actually accomplish.
It's a question that seems simple at first, but the longer you consider it, the more meaningful it becomes.
We often associate worry with responsibility.
If we're concerned about our family, we worry.
If something matters to us, we worry.
If we're facing an important decision, we assume that spending more time thinking about every possible outcome will help us make the right choice.
But what happens when thoughtful consideration becomes an endless cycle of fear?
What happens when we're so preoccupied with avoiding disappointment that we become reluctant to pursue the very opportunities that could improve our lives?
And how can the teachings of Jesus help us understand the difference?
Throughout this conversation, we'll explore why our minds sometimes imagine outcomes that aren't supported by the facts, why uncertainty can feel so uncomfortable, and how we can begin responding to difficult circumstances with greater perspective.
We'll also consider the role of personal responsibility.
Faith doesn't eliminate the need to make decisions, seek information, address problems, or take meaningful action.
But it can help us recognize that we don't have to control every outcome in order to live responsibly.
I believe there's something deeply encouraging about understanding that distinction.
You can acknowledge the seriousness of a situation without deciding in advance that everything will go wrong.
You can learn from past mistakes without allowing those mistakes to become your permanent identity.
And you can remain hopeful about your future without pretending that life will always unfold according to your expectations.
This episode is especially meaningful for anyone experiencing financial pressure, career uncertainty, relationship concerns, emotional fatigue, or the feeling that there's simply too much happening at once.
My name is Douglas Vandergraph, and these conversations are an opportunity for us to look at the teachings of Jesus Christ in a way that connects with the realities of being human.
I don't believe we need complicated religious language to explore meaningful spiritual truths.
Sometimes the most valuable thing we can do is consider a simple question, examine our own experiences, and recognize that there's another way to approach the challenges in front of us.
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And as you listen, I hope you'll consider one question.
How much more of your life could you experience if you stopped treating every possibility as though it were already a reality?
God bless you, and thank you for spending this time with me.
 
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Trusting God in uncertain times can become one of the deepest expressions of faith you ever learn.
It is easy to talk about trusting God when the answer has already arrived.
It is harder when you are still waiting.
When the phone has not rung.
When the decision has not been made.
When the prayer still feels unanswered.
When you are doing your best and still cannot see what is around the next corner.
In this episode, Douglas Vandergraph reflects on one of the most reassuring moments in the life of Jesus Christ: the storm that frightened His disciples while Jesus remained in the boat with them.
That story carries a simple truth for anyone living through uncertainty.
The presence of trouble does not mean God has disappeared.
Jesus never promised His followers a life without storms. What He demonstrated was that no storm gets to decide who He is, where He is, or whether He remains trustworthy.
That distinction can change the way you approach your own future.
You can admit that you are nervous without surrendering to fear.
You can acknowledge that you do not know what will happen while still believing that God is capable of leading you through it.
You can stop demanding a complete map and begin trusting Christ for the next step.
Perhaps one of the most freeing things you can say today is:
“I do not know what happens next, but I know I do not face it alone.”
That is not denial.
That is faith.
Listen when you need perspective, when your thoughts are racing, or when you simply need to be reminded that the chapter you are living today is not the end of your story.
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Finding God’s purpose through adversity often begins long before we understand why a difficult season entered our lives.
There is something my children tell me that has made me think deeply about my own story. They say the adversity I have experienced is part of what makes me who I am today.
That does not mean the painful moments were good. It means they were not necessarily wasted.
Some experiences teach you compassion because you remember what it felt like to hurt. Some failures teach humility. Some disappointments teach patience. Some lonely seasons teach you to recognize the person who feels invisible. Sometimes God develops qualities in us through circumstances we never would have selected for ourselves.
That raises an important question: What if part of your purpose is being shaped by something you currently wish had never happened?
Jesus provides an extraordinary example. Before much of His public ministry unfolded, He went into the wilderness. He faced hunger, isolation, and temptation. The wilderness was difficult, but it was not evidence that God's plan had disappeared.
We sometimes expect God's presence to make every road easy. Scripture gives us a different picture. Jesus told His followers that trouble would come, while also assuring them that He had overcome the world.
That means your adversity deserves perspective, but it does not deserve ownership of your identity.
You are more than the worst thing you experienced. You are more than your biggest mistake. You are more than the person who rejected you or the opportunity that disappeared.
God is still able to work through your story.
Perhaps the prayer for today is not, “God, explain everything to me.” Maybe it is, “God, use everything I have learned.”
Use my victories. Use my failures. Use what hurt. Use what healed. Use the doors that opened and even the ones that closed.
If you are tired, spiritually worn down, uncertain about your future, or wondering whether what you have experienced can ever have meaning, this conversation is for you.
Your story may still be under construction.
And what feels like adversity today may someday become part of how you serve, encourage, understand, or strengthen somebody else.
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Christian motivation can become a lifeline when you finally recognize how exhausting it is to build your life around everybody else’s approval.
There are seasons when you may feel as though everyone needs something from you.
Someone needs your time.
Someone needs your help.
Someone needs you to agree.
Someone expects you to stay strong.
Someone expects you to remain the person you have always been.
And somewhere inside all of those expectations, you can begin losing touch with your own heart and with the direction God is giving you.
This episode looks at something powerful in the life of Jesus: He consistently loved people without allowing their expectations to define His identity.
That is not coldness.
That is not selfishness.
That is spiritual clarity.
Jesus served people, healed people, taught people, listened to people, and gave Himself for people. But He never allowed public pressure to become His compass.
We need that same wisdom.
You may be carrying anxiety because someone is unhappy with one of your choices.
You may be losing sleep because you are afraid of disappointing your family.
You may know something needs to change, but you keep delaying it because you fear what people will say.
This conversation is about learning the difference between loving people and living for their approval.
It is about becoming comfortable with the reality that following God may occasionally leave somebody else confused.
It is about remaining humble enough to receive correction while becoming strong enough not to surrender your life to every outside opinion.
Most of all, it is about finding your identity somewhere deeper than praise, criticism, acceptance, rejection, applause, or disappointment.
God knows you fully.
God sees the pressure you carry.
God understands the decisions other people may never completely understand.
Keep bringing those decisions to Him.
Keep praying.
Keep listening.
Keep growing.
You do not have to become hardhearted to stop being controlled by approval. You can become freer, healthier, wiser, and more loving because your heart is finally anchored somewhere stable.
 
Your friend,
Douglas Vandergraph
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